Don’t worry the majority are common sense or common courtesy. If you search the net you tend to find these “unwritten rules” are more commonly talked about
1. Build and Interesting Profile. As I mentioned earlier add as much info to your user profile as you can. Make sure you cover off who you are what you like and dislike, what your interests are, what you are looking for and why.
Don’t be afraid to be you and make sure you sound interesting as you should find more success. Don’t forget you will be reviewed afterwards so don’t exaggerate the truth too much.
2. Have you Profile properly Verified. Remember that verified profiles build trust and with that added security for guests and hosts people are more likely to feel it is safer to host you or to stay with you.
3. Take time to thoroughly review user profiles to find a Compatible Host. If you look for a host or guest that has similar interests, goals hobbies etc that match yours you are much more likely to get on and this is very important for you both to enjoy the experience.
4. Ask your host what they expect of you. If the host hasn’t already told you what it expected within their user profile ask.
You don’t want to turn up and find out they want you in bed by 9pm and also you never know if you get on well enough they may want to join you on your trip for a while.
5. Before you book ask some questions. If you have a question ask it remember it is unlikely you will know the host or guest in advance so if you have a burning question as it.
Is there a curfew? Can you hang out with them? Do you need to fit around their lives? If you are running a little late will it affect them?
Don’t forget if you are late or don’t turn up they could be waiting in for you and be inconvenienced they may even be picking you up…
6. Couch Surfers – You are staying for free so offer token of appreciation. How many complete strangers would let you stay for free? NONE!
This is a very important unwritten rule, make the host feel appreciated, offer a gift related to the hobby or interest (you thoroughly studied their profile remember), offer to teach them something, grab a takeaway or cook them a meal.
Don’t be tight, if you eat at a hosts pay your way or get some groceries in at least make the offer.
7. Be friends and return the favour. Its not always possible to get on with everyone but make the effort to get along.
If you manage to get along with your host then you will both cherish the experience, don’t forget if you have the means you could have an opportunity to return the favour.
Let them know if they are welcome and you never know they may even come to visit some day…
8. Clean up after yourself and help out with the household chores – Your mum isn’t staying with you is she so make sure you behave yourself, clean up after yourself.
If you get a chance why not help out a little, chuck out the bins, get the hoover out or clean the loo when you’re done. Your host will appreciate this a lot more than you think, will give you a better review and are likely to welcome you back again.
9. Rate your stay – Once you have done and left don’t forget to rate your host remember this is your opportunity to tell the next couch surfer how great your experience was. On the flip side your review could help someone avoid an awful experience.
10. Stay active on your couch surfing site – Don’t forget that this can be a social experience for you and the other users on the website.
If you are in regular contact with other users they are more likely to recommend you and this enhances trust and your reputation meaning you can offer advice and the community can greatly benefit from this.